The newsletter where I share my 5 favorite ideas, lessons, and discoveries of the week.
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1. A short essay that I found inspiring
credit: @diewithoutregrets
There are two things I want to dig into here.
The first is already in the piece. The second is something I want to add. 1. The time’s going to pass either way.
I find this mindset helpful because it removes a lot of the built-in excuses. that come with starting something big. “This is going to take years” sounds like a good reason to stall, until you realize those years are coming either way.
2. The finish line is usually a smaller part of the reward than we think.
Anyone who has chased a big goal knows this feeling. You think the payoff is waiting at the finish line, but once you get there, you realize a lot of the reward was hidden in the process. And I think remembering that before you start makes the whole thing feel less scary. Because you’re not waiting three years for the payoff. The payoff starts as soon as you begin.
Just a reminder: happy people encourage, attractive people compliment, and successful people support. And those who have nothing to offer bring you down. Once you really understand that, you stop taking certain things personally because people who feel secure don't get threatened by your growth. They don't compete with you, and they don't try to dim you. They clap, they share, and they make space. But when someone constantly criticizes you, minimizes you, or tries to humble you every time you shine, that is not confidence talking. That's insecurity. So instead of shrinking yourself and making others comfortable, pay attention to the pattern. The right people will push you forward. The wrong ones will try to pull you back. So choose your circle wisely.
Are you climbing a mountain for the world to see you or for you to see the world?
P.S. A new cohort of Archimedes is starting soon. It's the private community I run with Ben Meer and Jade Bonacolta for people serious about building and monetizing a personal brand. If that's you, apply here.
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